Boomers
This morning I read a an
interesting thread on Reddit that started as a discussion of the decline of
teen pregnancy, but ended as a Millennial Generation rant against Baby
Boomers. In this thread, almost every
contributor shared a story about how their parents called them lazy, selfish,
and entitled. There were also a number
of posts about how the Millennials have "ruined this country." To this section of posts, the replies were
almost universal that it was actually the Boomers who wrecked the nation. This was an interesting point, and one which
I want to explore in a bit more depth.
I should take a moment and
note here, that I am writing this as a person who is solidly in the middle of
Generation X. We are an odd and
relatively small generation sandwiched between the massive Boomers and the even
more massive Millennials. We, for the
most part, have been a quiet generation.
We whine and complain, but for the most part, we do what is expected of
us. We don't make waves, and we really
have never had much political lout. We
had a lot of cultural influence, but in terms of real power, we never had that
much. This is in contrast to the
generations to either side of us, which had both cultural and political clout.
Gen X'ers, are the products
of a similarly small and quiet generation called the Silent Generation. The Silent Generation was unusually small
because the combination of World War I and the Spanish Flu decimated the population
and this was followed by the financial meltdown of the Great Depression, which
made having a large family unaffordable.
Then to top it off for that generation, they were completely
overshadowed by the Baby Boom of the 1950's, to the point where many of the
members of this generation don't even know where they belong, the older ones
think of themselves as part of the "Greatest Generation" and the
younger ones think they are Boomers.
And this returns me to my
point, when the Baby Boomers came along, the entire cultural axis of the world
shifted to accommodate them. This shift
is understandable. Their parents were
steeped in the horror that was World War II, they saw atrocities the likes of
which had not been seen before, or thankfully, since. And after they returned from that nightmare,
they were set on making sure their kids never experienced that sort of pain.
And in doing this, they made
their children the centers of their universes.
This was the birth of the
profession of "child psychology" and, led by Dr. Spock, children
became "special and unique snowflakes." Disciplining your children
was out, letting them explore their creativity was in. Austerity was no longer the rule when it came
to toys, lavish playrooms became the norm.
And probably the most important, benign indifference ceased to be the
standard in child care, now, heavy involvement became the expectation. For the Boomers, it was typically just the
mother that was heavily involved in the children's lives, because the father still
maintained the traditional breadwinner role, but even back in the 50's fathers
were expected to be more involved, coaching little league, going to
parent/teacher conferences, and, as shown in "Father Knows Best,"
fixing all of the problems in the family.
And that created, in the
children, an expectation that their every whim would be responded to. Not necessarily accommodated, that didn't
come until later, but they still knew that their voice was going to be
heard. I do want to say, this isn't
necessarily a bad thing, it is just that it was taken to extremes with the
Boomers.
Another important cultural
shift that occurred at this time was the birth of Randianism. Ayn Rand's books were becoming a cultural
touchstone for many. Atlas Shrugged was being treated as reverentially as the
Bible in the circles of the intelligentsia, and this book enshrined selfishness
as a cultural positive. When this was
coupled with children who were never really told no, it created a force majeure
in society; people who believed that they were the most important things in
their own lives, and that nothing mattered except the "self."
The beginning of the
impactful pole shift started in the Sixties with the Vietnam War. The Boomers turned out en-masse to protest
the war. I do want to state here, that Vietnam was pointless and horrific, and many of the
protesters were motivated by that, but to a large part, many of the protesters
were against the war because they didn't want to go. They were motivated by selfishness, and a
legitimate desire to not die in the jungles of Asia .
I know this doesn't seem to
fit with the myth that we are told about the sixties, that the Hippies wanted
peace, civil rights, and flowers, but it is much closer to the truth. For the most part, there were two separate
civil unrest movements in the Sixties, the Civil Rights Movement, which was
bracketed by he Watts Riots of 1965 and the Detroit Riots of 1967, and the
Anti-War Protests which climaxed in 1972.
The Civil Right protests,
although containing a fair number of whites, were primarily organized and
populated by the African-American Community.
In general, white America either protested in support or against the Civil
Rights Movement, but on the whole, this battle was won by the black community
and by a group of lawmakers who supported the changes to the laws. Also, by the time that the Baby Boomers
really started to come of age in 1968, significant progress had been made in
this movement, schools were beginning to be integrated, Jim Crow and the Poll
Tax had been eliminated, and, most importantly, the massive Civil Rights act of
1964 was the law of the land. Although
equal rights remains a problem today, after the death of Martin Luther King Jr,
the nation's attention on the issue began to wane.
On the other hand, the
Anti-War protests were really just beginning in 1968. This was the point when the war was really
heating up, after the Tet Offensive of 67, and when public opinions of the war
were beginning to change. This was the
age of "one, two, three, four! We don't want your fucking war!" and
"Hell no, we won't go!" While
the Boomers had been on the periphery of the Civil Rights Movement, they were
at the heart of the Anti-War Protests.
Further, they had learned from the Civil Rights Movement how much public
demonstrations and even riots can effect change.
But at the core, the
protests were against the draft and conscription, not against the war
itself. This can be seen from the fact
that after the draft ended in 1973, so did most of the mass protests. In this, Richard Nixon was correct, end the
draft and you will end the demonstrations. The Boomers had successfully agitated to
achieve their own ends, which was the right to vote at 18 and an end to forced
military service. Although this goal
served society as a whole, it served to reinforce the idea that what the
Boomers wanted, the Boomers got.
Basically, they threw a massive national tantrum and changed the law and
a century of public policy of national service.
But it didn't stop
there. As the Boomers came of age, they
began to redefine the family and family ties.
Free love, polyamory, swinging and ultimately divorce entered the public
discourse. Where before, adultery was a
public shame and divorce indicated a failure of the people involved, now they
became normalized and more or less accepted.
The last gasp of this what when Bill Clinton could screw an intern in
the Oval Office and watch his poll numbers go up, not down.
Again, I am not saying that
there wasn't good in this. Sex was no
longer a dirty and shameful thing, and people could get out of abusive
situations with dignity, but the positive aspects of these transformations was
not the driving influence. Driving it
was the desire of the Boomers to have whatever they wanted. If they were board in their marriage, they
wanted a "get out of jail free" card.
If they wanted their secretary or their pool boy, they could have them,
without social shame, and even more, with a certain cachet that they were
sophisticated and modern. Again, it
should be noted that the Boomers had the highest divorce rate of any
generation, and among the generations that bracket them, the divorce rate has
remained lower. In fact, among the Gen
X'ers, the divorce rate is below the national overall rates.
The next wave of the Boomers
transformation of society was arguably a very bad thing for the nation as a
whole. Unlike the earlier movements that
spawned positive social progress, the next actions would turn back the clock
with the "Regan Revolution."
Once the Boomers were settled into their comfortable middle class adult
lives, they decided that they no longer liked taxes. They began to say, "if you are a
Republican when you are twenty, you have no heart, and if you are a Democrat at
age 40, you have no brain."
As the edge of the Boomers
entered the 80's, they became caught up in the Regan Trickle Down
Economics. Again, this was not because
of facts (the Laffer Curve was rattled off on a cocktail napkin) it was because
they wanted to keep more for themselves.
Suddenly, they no longer cared about a social safety net, helping the
poor or anything else, they just wanted more for themselves. The movie "Wall Street" became an
instruction manual as opposed to a cautionary tale.
Step by step, throughout the
80's the young guns, led by people like Karl Rove began to dismantle
institutions that had existed since the Depression. All of the protections that were put in place
after the Crash of 29 were lifted, and Wall Street again returned to a free
wheeling casino. And this made the
Boomers rich.
They even subverted the
teachings of the Christian Church to validate their selfish worldview. The Prosperity Gospel is a product of the
Boomers, and teaches that God wants you to be rich, and if you are not rich, then
you are evil and God has turned His Grace from you. This way, they can feel smugly satisfied with
their own goodness as they look at all they have.
But rather than follow in
their parent's footsteps and sacrifice for their children and for their
futures, they piled on loan debt on their kids while they vacationed in Belize . The Boomers
have the lowest rate of savings of the modern era, and the highest debt, while
still raking in the bulk of the wages.
(And in this, Gen X again exceed the previous generation, investing in
401K plans, IRA's and generally being pretty frugal.)
Further, unlike previous
generations, the Boomers have declined to step off of center stage and allow
the youth to begin to take the reigns.
They cling to jobs, locking younger people out of lucrative
careers. They insist on remaining the
target demographic, leading the TV to be filled with ads for Viagra and Lexuses
rather than ads for diapers and Priuses.
And ironically, the generation that got its start on the public stage
protesting war became the biggest cheerleaders for perpetual war.
And most importantly, they continued
to dominate the national discourse, as they have since they were about 20. The older generations are patted on the head
and treated like they are demented, and the younger generations are told to
shut up because they don't know how the world works. They dominate all of the discussions.
And that brings us to the
modern era. The world is shifting with
the election of Barack Obama. For the
first time in their lives, a man was elected President without the majority of
them supporting him. Suddenly a broad
coalition of "others" elected someone who they did not want as
President. Even worse, he isn't completely one of them. Being born in 1961, he is on the cusp between
the Boomers and Gen X, with as many experiences in common with the X'ers as he
has with the Boomers.
And what followed was the
biggest tantrum that the Boomers have ever thrown. You have 60 year old women on TV screaming
and crying "I want my country back."
You have major politicians claiming the President is literally an
illegal alien. You have Tea Partiers
shutting down the government to get their way.
If they can't run things the
way THEY want them run, then they will destroy everything. It doesn't matter if the country is ruined,
they would rather see it completely collapse before they will let the power
shift from their hands.
And this is the biggest
caution I can give, power WILL pass from their hands; each generation has it's
hour on the stage and then is heard no more.
The question is, what will they do when the power passes from them.
Based on what we have see so
far, it will not be pretty.